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AdultFriendFinder review
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Good for: Casual, sexual, no-pretence dating with grown-ups who say what they want.
Skip it if: You want a relationship, or you'd be ruined if your account leaked: it was breached in 2016.
Visit AdultFriendFinderAdultFriendFinder is the long-running adult option, and unlike the niche "mature" sites below it's a real community: people post, chat and meet. Plenty of members are over 40, and the search filters let you look for exactly the age range you want, so for casual dating with an older woman it's the adult site we would try first.
Messaging needs a paid Gold membership, cheapest by the year. Verification is thin, so expect some fakes and video-chat before you meet. Privacy is the real cost: the 2016 FriendFinder breach exposed about 412 million accounts, including ones users had deleted. Sign up with an email and username that aren't connected to your name; our privacy and safety guide for over-40s shows how to set up a second number and email.
The facts
- Cost
- Free to join and browse; messaging needs Gold, reported at $24.95 a month, $20.95 a month over 3 months, or $14.95 a month billed yearly.[1]
- Who uses it
- AFF publishes no audited active-user numbers. Large "member" totals on adult sites usually count every account ever created, active or not. (Our own check: no published source found.)
- Verification & safety tools
- We found no published photo- or ID-verification system like the mainstream apps'. Treat every profile as unverified until you have video-chatted. (Our own check: no published source found.)
- Privacy record
- In October 2016 about 412M accounts across FriendFinder Networks' sites were exposed, roughly 340M of them AdultFriendFinder accounts, including more than 15M accounts users had deleted but the company still kept. Use an email address and username that are not tied to your real name.[2][3]
- Bots, fakes & regulators
- We found no regulator action or credible investigation about fake profiles on this platform. That is not proof there are none: report anything that looks automated. (Our own check: no published source found.)